Ego Hits The Best and Worst of Us. Mostly The Worst.

So, I probably wouldn’t have found this shining example of ego-centricity if Grazia Horwitz hadn’t plurk’d it this morning with a link and the caption ‘OMG, I peed’. When someone laughs so hard they pee, you have to check that out.

In our SL Fashion culture, ego seems to be the thing that proceeds you before a fall. We value and hold up our talented, humble designers, but then there are the ones who make up for lack of talent with an ego the size of the Red Sea. In fact, I’ve noticed that the less talented (and I’ll explain later what I mean by talented) the designer, the bigger the ego, especially if they’ve been around longer.

I’m putting a cut here because I have a feeling this will be a touchy subject with some people, so don’t click it if you don’t want to read it. I was feeling picky today, and this set me off.

So Vanilla Sola, designer of Black Moon, is apparently up in arms because someone stole her idea that was all her own and had never been done before; paper as an outfit. I know, right? Well, here’s some pictures of the copying: Black Moon, Lemania Indigo . They totally look alike, amirite? I think the Paper Couture outfit (way to steal a successful brand name for your outfit, Vanilla) is made of paper…and the newsprint dress…is made of paper.

Will anyone cry content theft these days? I wouldn’t even say they’re remotely similar.

Vanilla then goes on to compare herself to Last Call in terms of quality:

And some of my customers approached me already scared that we’d close as Last Call because they compair our design with them and did tell me they don’t want to loose the quality.

Also, what really sets her outfits above the rest:

Thanks god my customers all still come to my shop and tell me they see the difference at the quality and that although my design ideas can be found meanwhile anywhere else too mine would be still outstanding. I guess it are the hours I put in that make the difference. Otherwise such idea using would have forced us to close our shop!

And here’s where the ego sets in…Vanilla made her paper outfit last year, while Lemania Indigo made hers on Tuesday. I’m sure that Vanilla’s innovative idea to use paper as a fabric had just been burning Lemania up for the past year until she just couldn’t help herself anymore.

Oh crap, I think Galliano just infriged on Vanilla’s IP rights!

I think it’s just the basic presumption and possibly the bad grammar that makes me so angry.

There are occasions when ego is a good thing. You should always have self-confidence and be happy with what you put out into the world. It’s when you present yourself as the be-all, end-all of the oh-so-important world of SL fashion that it starts to stink a little. And Vanilla’s ego had a whole slew of fashion bloggers laughing at her in Plurk today.

And since ‘talent’ is such an amorphous concept, let me tell you what I consider ‘talented’ pieces. It’s also what I look for when I want to review something for SCD.

  • A good sense of proportion and symetry/asymetry
  • Details such as buttons, pockets, seams, etc
  • Texturing that actually uses texture in an efficient, elegant way
  • Shading and depth, which is probably my overall criteria
  • Whimsy and heart

Judged on this scale, Black Moon would not be blogged on SCD. I’m not saying that because I consider her untalented, Vanilla should close her shop and leave SL forever. I’m not the boss of anyone; just some chick with a blog and an idea of what she likes.

If designing is what turns your crank, then design! Make what you love! Work constantly to improve your skills and you’ll be great! If we like it we’ll buy it and treasure it. Just don’t presume that you’re the best game in town, please. There’s nothing like an unhealthy ego to make people want to rip you out of your self-appointed tower.

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