Welcome to SL Secret, Week 108! Tenshi has company so she asked me to do Secrets today. I am also busy with company, have a wonderful holiday in the US. If not in the US have a wonderful day! -K
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最近的 plurk 回應：
 | [ Is ] | oh god #3 makes me want to cry |
 | Cember | Gah, me too...especially knowing one of my long-time SL friends is not doing so well health-wise. It scares me  |
 | Shellywashere | #3 is what secrets should be about |
| Shellywashere | @2 is so blatant even I got it. That one will come down. |
| Cember | Exactly! #3 and #11 are the only ones that really follow what SLSecrets is meant to be |
 | Darkley | tell me who no2 is |
| Cember | It's about Luna |
| Cember | They used her store name and a picture of a moon |
 | Felickity | Yeah, 2, 3 & 16 are all really obvious, and should probably be removed? |
| [ Is ] | oh I meant #4 I guess. The one about the death. The number is underneath. Oops. |
 | The Nessa | #4 is the sad one |
| The Nessa |  |
| Shellywashere | Yeah I thought 3 was about death. Lemme go figure this out. |
| [ Is ] | I guess 3 is obvious because of the title, but #2? |
| The Nessa | 3 seems to be about Project Donate. |
| Cember | For once I get like, all of the secrets lol |
| [ Is ] | deccydoll: fill me in then, 'cause wow |
| Shellywashere | 2 is Luna. 3 and 16 I don't get. Someone tell? |
| [ Is ] | ShellyToonie: the number is under the pic, to the bottom left |
| [ Is ] | 17 is the one with the guy on the toilet, and I don't get it either. |
| The Nessa | that isnt even a secret, just a weird photo |
| Cember | 1. Hair Fair. 2. Luna 3. Project Donate 4. Sad 5. Probably Soph but could be any of us pug bitches I guess 6. no idea 7. HairFair |
| Cember | 8. Could be any of a number of kissassses 9. No idea 10. Another saddish one 11. An actual legit SLSecret lol 12. I dunno but ROOD lol |
| Shellywashere | Pigbutch is pugbitch? |
| Cember | 13. no idea 14. Dont feed the troll |
| Cember | and 15 is something about a cheater I dunno lol |
| Cember | Yeah theres a picture of a pug behind the text |
| Cember | 16. is Truth sponsoring Project Donate |
| Cember | Ohh just the whole shebang Im guessing |
| Cember | The first one is really rude. It's not like they said "Lets make it look impoverished" What a jackass lol |
| Shellywashere | K I see the Pug now and yeah actually that could be luna too |
| Shellywashere | Kess um, bah. These are pretty transparent. |
| Cember | Yeah, if *I* get them they're easy ones lol |
| Cember | ecause Im usually like...durrrrr at the secrets |
| Shellywashere | I am pretty sure the pug is Luna too. |
| [ Is ] | Aww, come on. Don't beat up on Kess. Otherwise she'll spend half of Sunday trying to figure out which ones shouldn't make it to the baord. |
| Cember | loll |
| Shellywashere | oh I'd never ever beat up on Kess. I heart her WAY much! |
| Cember | Nah they are mostly legit to stay I think |
| Cember | but people suck lol |
| [ Is ] | she's got much more important things to do. if someone wants a secret about them removed, they'll request it. |
| Cember | We need more people like 4 and uhh...12? |
| Shellywashere | I just wanted to let her know that I'm totally a clueless twit and I figured a few out too easily. |
| [ Is ] | 4 and 10 seem to fit the post secret type of thing |
| Cember | Yess those ar ethe ones I meant lol |
| Cember | I wish we had more people who used SLSecrets the RIGHT way like that |
| Cember | Instead of ones that use it to spread hate |
| [ Is ] | I want to know who 13 is about |
| Cember | I heard some drama the other day about some blogger or someone who flipped out when someone asked them where their eyes were from or |
| Cember | something but I was half out of the loop on that one so no idea who it was |
| [ Is ] | OH |
| Cember | I just heard something about eyes and freaking out lol |
| [ Is ] | Someone asked Gogo where her eyes were from, she wouldn't say, and they went apeshit and harassed her repeatedly in the comments. |
| Cember | Ohh okay well then I'm guessing that's what it was |
 | people keep asking GoGo about her eyes but its the one thing she wants to keep personal |
| the girl has a right to keep something to her own look |
| [ Is ] | No one's getting into that debate here. |
| [ Is ] | This is all speculation at this point. |
| Cember | lol |
| Cember | I'm thinking that must be it cause its the only eye-related thing I've heard recently |
| [ Is ] | Gogo ever said eyes are the window to the soul? |
| Cember | Well it wasnt necessarily her that wrote the secret, could have been someone who saw the person being a dick lol |
| [ Is ] | the secret says "you are right" |
| Cember | hmm maybe the bitchy eye person said window to the soul |
| Cember | I dunno I havent seen any of the mess lol |
| [ Is ] | I didn't read it either, then Gogo deleted most of the comments as far as I know. I don't care enough to look it up. |
| Cember | FOUND IT |
| Cember | juicybomb.com/2010/09/02/eyes-are-the-window-to-the-soul/ |
 | kesseret | ok a) i have GUESTS this holiday, so things will be slow.  I only got the project donate one and that was not being mean it was just sayin |
| kesseret | they want to participate too but they felt they weren't 'cool' and weren't picked- problem is their app probably got missed b/c SL SUCKS |
| kesseret | when it comes to inventory. Maybe talking to the people in charge would be easier than secreting |
| kesseret | now that you told me it's about people it makes sense and luna can come talk to me. It's better if people just IGNORE secrets about them |
| kesseret | but she knows she can come to me, I'm open. Anyone who has come to me has no troubles. |
| kesseret | now i am going back to my holiday |
| Shellywashere | we lurves you Kess. |
| Cember | Get drunk for me! |
| [ Is ] | enjoy your company! ILY Kess <3 |
| Cember | And ITA agree about people secretting about stuff like not being included..why not IM the person to check if they got the app, etc? |
| Cember | People are turds. |
| [ Is ] | tbh I think more damage is done when people let the cat out of the bag and claim the secret is about them. ignorance is bliss, people. |
| Cember | At least theres none that are absolutely outright horrifically nasty this week lol |
| kesseret | amen, i am so DUMB. I can tell you about the server that runs the sites but sl gossip I know shit about. |
| kesseret | anywho, looking up a brownie recipe YUM. <3 |
| Cember | lol that doesnt make you dumb Kess that makes you a GENIUS |
| Cember | MAKEME SOME |
| [ Is ] | kess has too much to worry about |
| Shellywashere | Yes she does. Kess, gimme sommat to help you with next time you stop for a breath. |
| kesseret | <3 I love you guys. I'd send brownies but there's no protocol for sending food over the internet! |
 | Mrs. Skarsgård | The one about Truth should be removed. It's obvious and it seems like nothing but an attack. It's not even true, he has not acted like that. |
| kesseret | PhoenixChapman: tell him to send an IM i'll remove it. Or whoever is his assistant. I'll be happy to |
| kesseret | i also left a comment that states my mind. I wish my brownies would totally bake lol they are taking too long grr |
 | Jolly Rancher | actually, it would be best if you took the high road and not posted these in the first place. Just sayin. |
| [ Is ] | Despite the passive-aggressive and the downright catty secrets, there ARE nice ones, and I think they deserve to be posted. |
| [ Is ] | I know some people are saying SL Secrets should end, but I'm not a fan of punishing the many for the sins of the few. |
| Jolly Rancher | punishing the many? There have been maybe 5 true 'secrets' in the last month. the rest are passive aggressive drama attacks. I think the |
| Jolly Rancher | few and many in which you speak are reversed. |
| [ Is ] | say 10% of people submit nasty SL secrets. You're still punishing 100% of readers by taking them down/discontinuing it. |
| Jolly Rancher | if that were the case, you'd have a better point, but its more like 90% submit nasty ones. |
| [ Is ] | not 90% of the readers. I seriously doubt that. |
| Jolly Rancher | I'm not following you at all then.  |
| Cember | what shes saying I think is that a lot of decent people read SLSecrets and its kinda like a guilty pleasure kind of thing for them and |
| Cember | it doesnt mean the READERS are bad people so why punish them by removing all the juicy stuff lol |
| Jolly Rancher | Because is the juicy stuff really constructive to anything? Why does everyone thing everything is everyone's business? its just kinda sad. |
| Cember | because most of the readers are women and women love drama and gossip as long as it doesn't involve them. |
| Cember | I hate to say that, but for the most part, I'd say it's true |
| Jolly Rancher | would we curl up and die if they did the right thing and stopped posting it? Probably not. |
| Cember | Well no, but it's not a *need* thing, its an interesting guilty pleasure kinda thing |
| [ Is ] | a secret was submitted about me and it was a nice one that brightened my day. i submitted one that was nice and followed the rules. |
| [ Is ] | people do enjoy it, regardless of whether it's mostly good or mostly bad. it's been going on for 2 years, so something about it is right. |
| Darkley | if you dont like it, dont click the link |
| [ Is ] | and as I said I really feel people do more damage by saying "this one is about me" rather than letting people be blissful in their ignorance |
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Haha….#2 is a ‘gem’
#10 But I did read it this week.
It’s not about you
or IS it.
I don’t know who you are, but I don’t blame you for wanting someone to miss you.
Number 7 is such a rambling mess – it seems more like some sort of journal of some person trying to hold on to their sanity.
My brain died a little bit trying to understand that one (which it still doesn’t).
I don’t understand why this week comments about Gogo have been removed, but last week’s about Truth etc are still there…double standard much?
Not comments, but submissions, I just woke up, sorry.
I feel acknowledging the “secret” actually gives the poster more satisfaction than the secret itself. I was blatantly secreted recently – they even went as far as to incorporate my role play name as part of the secret – but meh why be bothered by some moron who has probably never spoken two words to me.
Oh I think you have to request it to be removed unless its pretty clear who it’s directed towards, but I could be wrong there. And oh I didn’t connect the two removed were about Gogo – hmm but if they are then screw you mean people!!!! LOL
the ones removed were not about Gogo. Even if there was a secret about Gogo she’d never request it to be taken down b/c she doesn’t read SCD.
I didn’t think they were about Gogo either but I didn’t want to not say something when the possibility of them being about her was put on there. She’s one of my people as you know!
“put out there” not put on there LOL typos
#3 – It’s possible they didn’t get your notecard, or didn’t see it. People get capped messages, you know.
#6 – I’m sorry you are in pain. Keep your chin up, it gets better.
#10 –
#16 – Ugh. People are so fucked up. Sure, he paid for the Sim, someone had to. If he could afford to, that’s fantastic. But I have not seen him act anything like what you’ve attributed to him. Jealous, are you?
I don’t know what #17 is about, but that picture made me happy.
Absolutely, I’m still laughing!
Two posts removed already? :-/ I really wish there was less fighting and bitching going on and more working together and having fun in SL. But it’s never gonna happen.
#12 is well done even if it is hit at someone.
#6: maybe you would hurt less if you laid off the ugly fonts? I know my eyes would.
WTF – the IMs I’m getting about No. 12. Hell no, that secret isn’t about me, nor did I post it. No one even knows who the hell I am here.
I agree with the principle though – why waste precious energy ripping on a blog when you could just stop reading it . . . unless there’s an ugly part of you that needs to be fulfilled by being cruel?
This is why we can’t have nice things.
yeah, pretty much.
If you are going to rip on someone who is doing a charity thing and you plan to donate directly then why not just do it? Is there a problem with just silently donating.
Regardless of who the secret would be about (because clearly there could be one about any charity event that goes on in SL) if you don’t want to do it inworld do it out of world and privately.
Then again SCD is based in the United States and even hate speech is protected so say what you want, but it makes you look ugly. It makes you look ugly even more if you do it anonymously.
I know people have good inside them. I’d love to see more secrets that are revealing, stark naked, bare, and emotionally raw. It makes for better reading than rehashing plurk/inworld drama every sunday.
I hate that the average SL IQ is like 78
here, here
That’s being far, far too generous Dancien.
Awesome secrets this week. Though I dunno why some get removed?
Anyway 6 and 11 stand out to me because it’s not just catty jabs (though some jabs can be fun amirite).
#6: If you really want to get them off your chest go for it, it’s okay, since you’d be anon. Cute piggy by the way. :3
#11: There is things you can do to take care of it, but that’s pretty crappy and typical these days, seems men don’t care about hpv since they aren’t the ones who get problems from it. Anyway take care of yourself. And pixelsmex to hearts content! <33
Some of the secrets would upset me but the truth is that the person they are aimed at…needs to explain himself to no one. He sleeps well at night knowing he does things for the very right reasons.
Yes…everyone counts…each one of us matter. If your notecard was not replied to I can assure you it was an oversight. I will be in SL tomorrow…please drop me your nc and we will fix this.
Final thing I will say is this….if helping people can cause so much contempt..it saddens me more than I can express. Peace.
#4 almost made me cry
Pfft. Number 13 is hardly a “secret”. Gogo addresses it right here:
http://juicybomb.com/2010/09/02/eyes-are-the-window-to-the-soul/
I’d say the real ugliness is coming from the people who can’t respect a girl’s simple wish to not disclose one item that she is wearing! I mean, really, what is so hard to understand about that?
Er.. Isn’t that what SL blogging is? Dislcosing what you are wearing?
For the record, this was not my secret.
I am with Melanie on this one. If someone doesn’t credit an item they are wearing in a blog post it’s plenty easy to ask them in a comment or inworld. Being polite is the key, though. You do catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar.
Blogging is a pretty open ended medium. I’m with Jerry Springer when he told his little Congressional hearing “If you don’t like what is on the TV then change the channel.” The Internet works the same way.
well, around 6+ people asked her on the blog where they were from in a single post. she made the comments visible, then ignored them. then when people asked why they were being ignored, she deleted all of the comments. they were all polite.
if you want to “keep something to yourself”, then don’t blog fashion… the whole point is to share what you’ve found on the grid.
eyes (poses, lashes, etc) aren’t always credited in sl fashion blogs but i’ve never seen someone so uptight about “revealing” the information when asked.
If you refuse to credit a creator on request, it’s going to look shady, like you don’t want to admit to wearing their stuff because they’re known for stealing, or you ripped the eyes yourself, or some other shit. And when you freak out because people even dared to bring up the subject… yeah, you just upped the shady quotient by about one million.
If copybot didn’t exist maybe people wouldn’t get so hung up about transparency. But it does. So they do.
@ #10…I know how you feel…I miss someone that way too.
To the poster of #3 – I’m sending you a big hugs and just hope you can reach a point where you talk to your friends so that you receive comfort and support.
#16 – stop wasting toilet paper you naughty girl.
God there is some good shit in the comments some days.
121&13 are funny cause 13 is the title of an older post of Gogo, while 12 seems to be an answer to 13 in a very strange way. lolz
11 is a nice secret
17 – this looks funny, but whats it about?
4 – another nice secret
@10 – how do they know that the person they are aiming that at doesn’t read SL secrets?
Because the person is no longer in SL, and I doubt they would pop in to read SL Secrets or even SCD. If they do, so be it.
#1-I think the tent city a nod to New York Fashion Week, which is always held in Bryant Park in air-conditioned tents. I think the build is brilliant, btw.
1.) I agree..
2.) welcome to SL
# 1 is about the Hair Fair…seems obvious. Not sure which laggy build # 7 is about, that could be a lot in SL.
# 10 very sorry to hear it, what a scum…Yeah some guys don’t care they just act like a petri dish. Make ‘em wrap it up next time.
as always i don’t get most. LMAO. I usually get only the super amazing obvious ones, like the truth one. I dont’get that at ALL, the guy paid for it, sponsors it, doesn’t make a DIME of it. whats wrong about that? At least he’s using his money/power for a good cause like this. So to diss that is plain jealousy/stupidness.
Whuts the tiger/cougar thingy?
Eyes are from UNIQUE MEGASTORE owned by Iarita Beck. The end!